Understanding basic etiquette will not only keep you out of trouble but will also help you connect deeply with the locals. Here are 7 important cultural do's and don'ts you should keep in mind during your stay in Jakarta.
1. Always Use Your Right Hand
In Indonesian culture, the left hand is traditionally considered unclean. Therefore, always use your right hand when shaking hands, giving or receiving items (like money or business cards), and eating. If your right hand is full, it is polite to say "excuse me" before using your left hand.
2. Keep Your Public Displays of Affection (PDA) Private
Jakarta is a multicultural metropolis, but it remains a traditional and predominantly Muslim society. Holding hands in public is perfectly acceptable for couples, but heavy public displays of affection like intense kissing or hugging should be avoided out of respect for local values.
3. Take Off Your Shoes Indoors
When visiting someone’s home, certain traditional shops, or religious sites, look at the entrance. If you see a pile of shoes, it means you must take off your footwear before entering. This keeps the indoor space clean and shows respect to the host.
4. Smile and Greet (The Power of "Terima Kasih")
Indonesians are highly social and value politeness. A simple smile goes a long way here. Learning a few basic words in Bahasa Indonesia will put a massive smile on any local's face:
Terima Kasih (Te-ree-mah Kah-seeh) = Thank you.
Permisi (Per-mee-see) = Excuse me / May I pass?
Selamat Pagi (Se-lah-mat Pah-ghee) = Good morning.
